Every kid wants to give up now and then. Be concerned when bailing out becomes a pattern with your older kid. Watch for these signs which could mean something else is going on and you should dig deeper and help your child fix a bigger problem.
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Unwilling to try a task or stick with it, fearing failure or making a mistake
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Easily discouraged, upset or quick to anger when facing setbacks
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Needs encouragement or the promise of a reward to complete a task
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Relies on someone else to complete a task
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Defensive or blames errors on others
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Cheats, cuts corners, or makes excuses to not do the task
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Gives up as the easy way out instead of really confronting the problem